Feeling Good??

Uh uh, this is the second time I write in this blog…so what I want to share eh…is it about happiness? Erm, everyone wants to live this life happily but unfortunately we can’t escape from a problem. Either we itself or other person will surely caught in a problem. A life with a bag of problem is not nice right? So how about this, there an article I read today that I want to share (I come up reading this article because my friend is having a problem and always have a bad mood these two day, somewhat make me feel in bad mood too!)

So here is what the author says, “If you want to make yourself happy, trying making someone else happy”. Yup, that is how we know the meaning of happy. Making someone happy is not an easy task and it is a matter of being sensitive to one’s need. Many people get it wrong when they always trying to find what the others want in order to bring them happiness but this are not the case. Instead, we should appreciate, respect and know what is their aspiration, thought and opinion.

There a way to know the thing that can make someone happy but we must bear this question in our mind, “what is happiness”. We should always remember that people are different and what make happiness for one may not be for the other. So I guess that we should be sensitive to their concerns. If we truly care about knowing what would bring happiness to a person then we will become more aware about the things they concerns.

Here a few ways to make someone happy! Who knows, one of it may help you a lot!

1. Smile at them. Learn how to have a real smile, and care about people. Learn how to feel compassion when regarding someone.

2. Tell them a funny joke. Inside jokes work really well, especially if it is something only between the two of you. Learn how to make them laugh

3. Find something funny online that you know they'll like and send it to them in an email.

4. Compliment them sincerely. Tell them something you love about them.

5. Invite them to do something fun with you. Go bowling, swimming, or something else fun and active

6. Listen to them. Try to understand their thoughts and be in their shoes. This shows you care and love them, whether they may appreciate it or not. Be there. They will come to realize what a friend you've been

7. Try not to insult them with some of your 'compliments'. That could lead to more sadness

8. Give a gift. Take the time out to pick out a special gift that is suitable for the person. The more thought you put into the gift, the better it is from the point of being an expression of positive energy. Be sure to include an inscription in the gift wherever possible, and make the message one that is uplifting and spiritual.

9. Spend quality time with the person. Plan for an event or simply time together in which you share precious moments on this world in each other's company

10. Constantly remind the person how much you value them, but don't go too overboard. Positive affirmations to others can help build the bridge of friendship and trust. Never use sarcasm though, as sarcasm is the biggest turn-off when it comes to building strong bonds with people.

p/s: hope this will help you guys! remember, a good life and health come from the happiness itself so, may all of you are always happy in the nappy!